Weddings & Events
For the whole weekend
We don't just host your event.
We help you plan the entire weekend, ceremony, dinner, accommodation, and the hours in between that people actually remember.
The De Stilte approach
One farm, one group, one weekend at a time.
Most venues hand you a room for an evening. Here you take the whole valley for two or three days: guests sleep on the farm, meals move between the shed and the werf, and the programme has room to breathe.
We work through the plan with you, arrival times, where the bridal party gets ready, which trail to send early risers on, when the fire gets lit.
Event spaces
Three spaces that carry the weekend.
The Oak Shed
A covered farm shed with open sides, long tables and space for dinner, speeches and dancing under one roof.
The Ceremony Lawn
An open lawn framed by old trees, with the mountains behind and the river below. Late afternoon light lands here.
The Fire Boma
A stone circle around an open fire, where Friday night starts and Saturday night refuses to end.
The weekend timeline
How the days tend to unfold.
A working shape for a wedding weekend at De Stilte. Yours will differ, this is where the conversation starts.
Slow start, big middle, late finish, the shape of a good farm wedding.
- 08:30
Long table breakfast
Coffee, bread and no hurry.
- 10:30
Trail or river
Guests spread out across the farm.
- 16:00
Ceremony
On the lawn, mountains behind you.
- 17:00
Celebration drinks
Photographs while the light is gold.
- 19:00
Dinner & speeches
One long table in the Oak Shed.
- 21:30
Dancing
Until the playlist gives up.
- 00:30
Stargazing
Blankets on the grass for the last few.
An illustrative weekend · every event is shaped around your group
What we host
Weddings are the beginning of the list.
Weddings
A whole weekend rather than a six-hour venue hire.
Birthdays & Celebrations
Milestone parties where nobody has to drive home.
Family Gatherings
Three generations, one farm, everyone within walking distance.
Corporate Retreats
Strategy in the shed, walks on the ridge, dinner around the fire.
Team Events
Trails, river and long tables instead of a conference centre.
Wellness Retreats
Quiet, dark skies and nowhere to be. Bring your facilitator.
Private Celebrations
Exclusive use of the farm for your group alone.
Other Group Events
Reunions, anniversaries, shoots and gatherings we haven't met yet.
Your date
Let's find out if your weekend is free.
Send us the shape of your event, guests, nights and what matters most, and we'll come back with availability and a written quote.
Enquiries only, no dates are held until we confirm them with you